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By TheFATOne, Mon 19 May at 4:41pm 
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It all sounds a bit like she wants to cool things off but maybe doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

Are you making her feel special unlike when you were together?

I think maybe be honest with her, ask her where it is going and tell her how you feel?

Good luck mate. Failing that, there are plenty more fish in the see!



I think maybe that too, I am trying to make her, but its hard i guess, as I am not sure where I stand so don't want to overstep the mark - right now we are just 'mates'.

She is generally strong willed, so she keeps saying and told me she wouldn't meet if she didn't want to.

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Re: Reading the signs...

By PGE, Mon 19 May at 4:41pm 
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Who decided to end things originally?

Edited Mon 19 May at 4:42pm

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Re: Reading the signs...

By STE, Mon 19 May at 4:42pm 
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TheFATOne wrote:

STE wrote:


It all sounds a bit like she wants to cool things off but maybe doesn't want to hurt your feelings?

Are you making her feel special unlike when you were together?

I think maybe be honest with her, ask her where it is going and tell her how you feel?

Good luck mate. Failing that, there are plenty more fish in the see!



I think maybe that too, I am trying to make her, but its hard i guess, as I am not sure where I stand so don't want to overstep the mark - right now we are just 'mates'.

She is generally strong willed, so she keeps saying and told me she wouldn't meet if she didn't want to.



I wonder if you are maybe holding back asking her feelings as you are scared you might not like what you hear? Deep down do you know it's over maybe?

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Re: Reading the signs...

By STE, Mon 19 May at 4:43pm 
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PGE wrote:

Who decided to end things originally?



She did. He didn't make her feel special enough....

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By PGE, Mon 19 May at 4:47pm 
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STE wrote:

PGE wrote:

Who decided to end things originally?



She did. He didn't make her feel special enough....



Hmmm.

I'd be very suprised if this was the only reason. Seems like it's not a big enough reason if the rest of the relationship is good.

Anyway, if she ended it I'd ask her straight out if she wants to get back together.

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By TheFATOne, Mon 19 May at 4:49pm 
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It kinda started to fizzle out, apparently I was too kewl about it all and never showed my feelings so she thought i wasn't really interested when initially she was. It went on for about 6 months and then I decided to find out what was going on.

Then a few months later i got back in touch, hence bit above, when we had the chat about it, I was surprised to see that she thought I was acting kewl, as I thought the same about her.

Anyways I am just totally confused now, I know the only way is to ask direct, but I don't want it to be the first thing that I ask when we have just started talking again.

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By TheFATOne, Mon 19 May at 4:50pm 
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PGE wrote:

STE wrote:

PGE wrote:

Who decided to end things originally?



She did. He didn't make her feel special enough....



Hmmm.

I'd be very suprised if this was the only reason. Seems like it's not a big enough reason if the rest of the relationship is good.

Anyway, if she ended it I'd ask her straight out if she wants to get back together.



Everyone is different I know, but would you go for a walk/pics with an x?

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By PGE, Mon 19 May at 4:52pm 
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TheFATOne wrote:



Everyone is different I know, but would you go for a walk/pics with an x?



If I was lonely and he made me feel better, yes.

That isn't the same as wanting him to be my boyfriend again though.

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Re: Reading the signs...

By deleted4, Mon 19 May at 4:52pm 
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Just ask her back out (when she has completed her medication etc., as she as a lot on her plate).

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Re: Reading the signs...

By Apple, Mon 19 May at 5:12pm 
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Barcode is right IMO. This wondering and analysing does your head in and at least the worst she can say is she isn't interested. At least then you get to move on...

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