...right divvy! Last night, too much alcohol I got it on with someone I shouldn't have and his ahem friend.

Problem is the guy is the one my best friend was cheating on her fella with. By rights it's all over between them and he is a single man but I really shouldn't have done that. If she finds out she'll go loopy.

What would you do? They have both said they wouldn't say anything but I feel really dishonest not telling her.

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You're friend will go loopy that you had sex with the guy she slept with to cheat on her boyfriend?

I'm going to be v blunt. Apple, you seem to be lurching from one disaster to another!

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Emotionally I'm fine about it, there's nothing really going on between me and this guy and I've no feelings for him.

It's purely from the aspect of my friend! Would you tell her or hope she doesn't find out?

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she'll go loopy?

she is cheating on her fella, and you feel dishonest?

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Well I'm supposed to be her best friend!

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*wishes had met apple years ago*

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Whore with a heart? ;-)

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Considering how things seem to work out with you, she'll prob find out from someone else anyway. So would it be worse for you to tell her or for someone else?

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I don't think you are a whore. If you were a guy everyone would be giving you pats on the back and high fives :-)

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Depends on your relationship with her doesn't it. What will happen if you tell her, what will happen if you don't and she finds out.

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