Note to Darnay: At least you won't spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been - you now know that he is a tw*t and you're going to be better off without him. You've gave it your best shot and he wasn't up to it.
(If they get back together again, I am in deep sh*t)
Note to CSM 101: Trying to use a break-up to get off with Peggy is just sleazy. And a remarkably quick rebound. It sounds a bit shallow to me.
Note to Darnay: At least you won't spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been - you now know that he is a tw*t and you're going to be better off without him. You've gave it your best shot and he wasn't up to it.
(If they get back together again, I am in deep sh*t)
Note to CSM 101: Trying to use a break-up to get off with Peggy is just sleazy. And a remarkably quick rebound. It sounds a bit shallow to me.
Was a joke dude! My way of keeping the situation light instead of sitting in the corner rocking backwards and forwards saying "Why me?!"
Awww, thanks. That's the one thing that does help. Through experience of being dumped many times in the past, I know that you do eventually forget all about that person, and you love the next person you meet just as much if not more.
It's exciting to wonder what my next lady will be like and what things we will enjoy together.
How are you sassy?
Thanks for asking CSM but you probably don't wanna know lol. Had a disagreement with my sister before I went on hol and she decided she "wanted nowt more to do with me" and told me by SMS no less lol... not bothered about the snooty one wanting nothing more to do with me but I do love my nephews and niece but unfortunately she's not the sort of woman who has a "ne pas devant les enfants" attitude so no doubt they've been drafted onto mummy's side :o( Had a week in Turkey which was basically a long row between OH and 17yo in the sun lol and my appointment with consultant not til 25th Sept and I think I'm getting addicted to co codamol :o/ Bet you're sorry you asked lol. I have to say from my own perspective with regards to relationships before I met OH was that I either liked them and was dumped... and now the anguish I may have felt is laughable as the wisdom of middle age decrees that it was only my ego what was hurt..... or I was a user, pretended to like someone who had kudos or money or summat.... what an unpleasant young lass I was!
Awww, thanks. That's the one thing that does help. Through experience of being dumped many times in the past, I know that you do eventually forget all about that person, and you love the next person you meet just as much if not more.
It's exciting to wonder what my next lady will be like and what things we will enjoy together.
How are you sassy?
Thanks for asking CSM but you probably don't wanna know lol. Had a disagreement with my sister before I went on hol and she decided she "wanted nowt more to do with me" and told me by SMS no less lol... not bothered about the snooty one wanting nothing more to do with me but I do love my nephews and niece but unfortunately she's not the sort of woman who has a "ne pas devant les enfants" attitude so no doubt they've been drafted onto mummy's side :o( Had a week in Turkey which was basically a long row between OH and 17yo in the sun lol and my appointment with consultant not til 25th Sept and I think I'm getting addicted to co codamol :o/ Bet you're sorry you asked lol. I have to say from my own perspective with regards to relationships before I met OH was that I either liked them and was dumped... and now the anguish I may have felt is laughable as the wisdom of middle age decrees that it was only my ego what was hurt..... or I was a user, pretended to like someone who had kudos or money or summat.... what an unpleasant young lass I was!
Course I want to know!
Well, I won't ask what the argument was about, but I'm sure if you stay calm and bide your time she will come round and things will patch up. She shouldn't use the children for her cause though. That said, some people use children as a pawn in whatever game they're playing. Who is OH and who is the 17 year old?
Co-codemol, eeek. Don't go there. Just be glad it's not Tramadol!
Isn't that the way of it. The one you want doesn't want you. Does this mean we all settle for whatever we can get in the end?
I don't think the friends thing normally works, not for a good while after the break up anyways, its something people say to lessen the guilt, or to make you feel like your not gonna lose them completely.
I agree, it doesnt work, but it is also horrendously difficult to walk away, even when you have been hurt, and especially if you still love and care about the bastard
