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By Phoenix, Tue 16 Sep at 2:42pm 
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If he's only 3, maybe leaving him to become glued to the tv/monitor screen isn;t the best thing anyway. We can't really judge without seeing the game for ourselves.

There has been a lot of debate over the years about whether playing with action toys and guns makes kids more violent. I think you need to just keep an eye on him. Loads of kids play pretending to shoot each other without wanting to pick a gun up. Presumably you don't have an actual gun in the house for him to get confused with.

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By roboraver, Tue 16 Sep at 2:43pm 
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Jimmie wrote:

Three and a half and playing computer games with guns?

Can he also

Count to fifty
Identify colours, fruits, vegetables, animals
Write his name
Swim
Name parts of his body
Ride a bike
Use a knife and fork
Put on his own clothes



He can count to 100
Yep
Yep
Not swimming yet
With the support beams
Yep
Yep
And he can understand 2 languages (English & czech and is learning Spanish as well)

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By Jimmie, Tue 16 Sep at 2:45pm 
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roboraver wrote:

Jimmie wrote:

Three and a half and playing computer games with guns?

Can he also

Count to fifty
Identify colours, fruits, vegetables, animals
Write his name
Swim
Name parts of his body
Ride a bike
Use a knife and fork
Put on his own clothes



He can count to 100
Yep
Yep
Not swimming yet
With the support beams
Yep
Yep
And he can understand 2 languages (English & czech and is learning Spanish as well)



Excellent - and as an intelligent father, you know full well why I asked !

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By roboraver, Tue 16 Sep at 2:45pm 
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Phoenix wrote:

If he's only 3, maybe leaving him to become glued to the tv/monitor screen isn;t the best thing anyway. We can't really judge without seeing the game for ourselves.

There has been a lot of debate over the years about whether playing with action toys and guns makes kids more violent. I think you need to just keep an eye on him. Loads of kids play pretending to shoot each other without wanting to pick a gun up. Presumably you don't have an actual gun in the house for him to get confused with.



When I say he plays it's on for 20 mins here or there and then back to reading and playing with other stuff, I dont have a gun at home ! but have used them when in the forces.

I just dont understand her reasoning,

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By Cyberdyne Systems Model 101, Tue 16 Sep at 2:46pm 
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Maybe she wants him to have more of a physical interaction instead of staring at the telly.

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By Johnny Ace, Tue 16 Sep at 2:50pm 
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roboraver wrote:

I just dont understand her reasoning,



I now what you mean, I've seen Ratchet & Clank & it's very non-voilent. Did you explain to her about feeling uncomfortable with your son playing with toy guns?

Does he play with older kids? 3 seems young to be playing with toy guns, I don't have any kids but I played guns as a kid but I'm sure I was older

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By Johnny Ace, Tue 16 Sep at 2:50pm 
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Cyberdyne wrote:

Maybe she wants him to have more of a physical interaction instead of staring at the telly.



That's a good point but 20 minutes here & there isn't that much

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By PGE, Tue 16 Sep at 2:52pm 
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Johnny wrote:

Cyberdyne wrote:

Maybe she wants him to have more of a physical interaction instead of staring at the telly.



That's a good point but 20 minutes here & there isn't that much



It's all about balance isn't it? I don't see a problem with 20 mins of computer games a day as long as he's also reading for 20 minutes and running around for 20 mins too!

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By Cyberdyne Systems Model 101, Tue 16 Sep at 2:54pm 
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If I ever have kids I don't think I will let them anywhere near a computer untill they're a good deal older than 3. I mean, at that age, you're still developing motor function co-ordination and spacial awareness. Sitting infront of a screen does nil for either.

I don't think I saw a computer 'till I was 10.

Edited Tue 16 Sep at 2:55pm

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Re: Am I being fussy ? advice needed please

By Noffles, Tue 16 Sep at 2:56pm 
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No your not being fussy really but ratchet and clank is a rubbish game!

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