It kinda started to fizzle out, apparently I was too kewl about it all and never showed my feelings so she thought i wasn't really interested when initially she was. It went on for about 6 months and then I decided to find out what was going on.

Then a few months later i got back in touch, hence bit above, when we had the chat about it, I was surprised to see that she thought I was acting kewl, as I thought the same about her.

Anyways I am just totally confused now, I know the only way is to ask direct, but I don't want it to be the first thing that I ask when we have just started talking again.