my mums best friend (who is like a second mother to me) has been diagnosed with bowel cancer, they are going to try and operate but its not looking good. I was wondering how to act around her, do I carry on as normal or do I mention how much we all love her and if there's anything u can do (she knows I would do anything for her and her family who we are very close to).

Also, is bowel cancer terminal? What sort of things can we expect? No one I know has had cancer (that I can recall)

Its most upsetting...

*cries*

She's the bestest most loving person I think I have ever met, its not fair