Bottom line is, here is yet ANOTHER thread about you opening your legs in a second and causing susequent problems. Do you never learn? What is the point in all these threads if you take no advice from them? I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's so repetitive, seems like people are wasting their breath on you.
For whatever reason, you seem to like to say "yes". Alot of the blokes on here applaud that, why wouldnt they? Whatever the reasons for this, it seems to put you in precarious positions time and time again. I would look at the root cause, as opposed to the one off impact of it happening.
Nul Point!
Having a sex life, even if it is casual sex, is not aberrant, wrong or a problem. It's normal.
It's the people who don't have sex lives or don't have access to casual sex whose perspectives become warped.
Having a sex life might bring problems sometimes but stopping sex altogther is a cure worse than the disease, throwing the baby out with the bathwater etc.
Criticizing a woman for behaviour that most men would jump at given the chance is hypocrisy.
All aspects of life bring problems. Marriage and child rearing cause most people the biggest problems but nobody ever suggests that is cured by not doing either.
Apple comes on here usually in a self-deprecatory way to share problems and a laugh about them and for the occasional good bit of advice or emotional support.
She is not in some sort of crisis that needs to be resolved before her life is ruined.
A board that invites sex threads is exactly the right place for her to share these issues.
Complaining about people talking about their sex lives on a sex board is like complaining about the boring or repetitive nature of the weight loss/weight gain/muscle build/exercise regime issues on those threads threads.
People who don't want to read about Apple's sex life can choose not to click on Apple threads on the sex boards.
