Dutch wrote:

PGE wrote:



I've had longer too but didn't want people to think I was a saddo. 18 months even. Can't remember!



i don't mind people knowing i'm a saddo.
besides, saying things like that just perpetuates the image that having lots of sex makes you cool. there's nothing wrong with having long dry spells or only a few partners.



That is very true. It's not as if I *couldn't* have had sex during those times if I'd really wanted to, ONS just aren't my thing.

You just need to do what works for you.