Thanks Proplus, hopefully counselling has done for her what it's done for me and if not, just show her the whole thread, the way I feel now compared to Xmas 06 is like night and day.
I don't consider myself "there" yet but I'm thinking about the rest of my life in a way I'd never wanted to do before. There are still bad days and I just got past one financial near miss that wouldn't have come up had I not been taking care of myself as intended but the week off will let me catch up my reading on the subject.
