Ben wrote:
It may sound harsh, but sometimes you may need to make the judgement to stop a conversation and walk out of a room, just to stop the flow and divert her way of thinking.
Someone suggested you do a bit of 'ahhh-ing' with a cuddle, which may be good to show support, but not all the time, as any feelings of helplessness and feeling weak might be reinforced by such actions.
You think walking out of the room and NOT cuddling her are a good idea?
You think helplessness and weakness are reinforced by affection and comfort?
Good God Ben, she's just had a baby!
