Ok, have thought about this and will put of texting (hopefully) till Sunday nite/Monday, ask if she wants to go to cinema or dvd (not sure about cinema as it means no chat!) - will bring up (hopefully) how I feel and that I would be happy to wait till she got back if she was interested, I will express that I don't really want to rock the friendship thing, i.e. if anything else is out the window i would like to remain friends, not friends that say hi, but friends that go out and do stuff etc.