Quick update:

Went to the pics the other nite, had a bit of a chat after them, I didn't want to bring up the whole I still having feeling convo, I thought about it, but thought, I didn't want to ruin what had been a good nite. We had a chat about her birthday and if we were still going to be doing something for it, we agreed that we would. It was then just general chit chat, she told me she was going into hospital soon - something i knew (she had cancer in the past) , I said I would visit (jokingly), she said she was only in as a day patient and wouldn't even be sure I could as the injections were radioactive, so not sure if she was really allowed people about her. Anyways we agreed to text next week and I mentioned about doing a DVD or something, i.e. when the hospital thing was mentioned. Anyways text last nite just to see how her weekend was etc, around about 10, but haven't had a reply yet. I know not to keep texting, however I am still at a lose with it all. (I know Dr Petra's advice is the best soultion, but I don't want to ask that question until we have met a couple of times before hand, in case I just annoy her off with asking about 'us' all the time!)