She isn't being mean, she's trying to be kind.
So I would do one of two things. Either just leave it, accept she's not for you, and move on. Or tell her that you want a second chance and see what she says.
Totally agree DrP.
I know this needs to be done, i just don't think meeting and rushing in straight away about it would have been the best way? I thought more about at least meeting as friends a couple of times, then maybe saying something?
I want her to know that she does mean a lot to me, if I made that mistake last time, I don't want to this time, but on the other hand I don't want to go out on a limb and make a complete fool of myself - am I already doing this?


