Want to canvass opinions on an issue. Short story: got off with good friend at weekend, fairly tame, could have gone further but didn’t. We were both drunk, I was the one who initiated it.

We have seen each other a couple of times since then and haven’t repeated it or even mentioned it. Things have not been awkward between us – on the outside everything is back to normal. However, it has been bothering me. I want to mention it to him tomorrow as I want to gauge how he feels about it.

However, I’m not sure whether it might just be best not to mention it. Is it more trouble/stress than it's worth? Are some things better left unsaid?

I really fancy him but not sure I want to date him. I think he might feel the same but not sure. Is it worth having a conversation or shall I just leave it?

p.s. Extra factor is that I think my friend really likes him too and she might be rather upset if she knew something had gone on.

Cheers for any thoughts!