loki wrote:



Seems the girl I have found myself dating is a cardio numpty, doesn't like lots of muscle at all (while I do) and thinks I'm sad that I'm so geeky bout it all.

She's a cool chick so it won't really affect what I do, but if you made yourself less attractive with your partner by adding more muscle or getting leaner - would it make you stop?



She's not alone in the cardio thing. That's what 'most' women are told is needed to keep in shape.

I think if you improve your physique she'd be unlikely to complain! Unless you went silly body builder-esqe.