I think maybe that too, I am trying to make her, but its hard i guess, as I am not sure where I stand so don't want to overstep the mark - right now we are just 'mates'.

She is generally strong willed, so she keeps saying and told me she wouldn't meet if she didn't want to.

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Who decided to end things originally?

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I wonder if you are maybe holding back asking her feelings as you are scared you might not like what you hear? Deep down do you know it's over maybe?

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She did. He didn't make her feel special enough....

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Hmmm.

I'd be very suprised if this was the only reason. Seems like it's not a big enough reason if the rest of the relationship is good.

Anyway, if she ended it I'd ask her straight out if she wants to get back together.

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It kinda started to fizzle out, apparently I was too kewl about it all and never showed my feelings so she thought i wasn't really interested when initially she was. It went on for about 6 months and then I decided to find out what was going on.

Then a few months later i got back in touch, hence bit above, when we had the chat about it, I was surprised to see that she thought I was acting kewl, as I thought the same about her.

Anyways I am just totally confused now, I know the only way is to ask direct, but I don't want it to be the first thing that I ask when we have just started talking again.

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Everyone is different I know, but would you go for a walk/pics with an x?

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If I was lonely and he made me feel better, yes.

That isn't the same as wanting him to be my boyfriend again though.

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Just ask her back out (when she has completed her medication etc., as she as a lot on her plate).

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Barcode is right IMO. This wondering and analysing does your head in and at least the worst she can say is she isn't interested. At least then you get to move on...

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