Yeah, it's not as scary as it sounds.

Ask her if she's got a few minutes because you want to talk about something important and just say it.

You'll feel so much better afterwards I promise!

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Id much rather do that face to face.

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I am sure you would... now just call her

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But you aren't getting anywhere and it's driving you mad!

Just call her and have the chat.

Believe me, you aren't going to get an answer you want or can gain comfort from from a text.

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Doesn't she have to go away or have some treatment first?

I haven't read back so I dont know where fat one is up to with his chick.

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One of her last texts was this:

"its kinda hectic, my colleague has her exam in 2 weeks so we're revising stuff after work for the next 3 nights since I'm away at the weekend too"

I don't know what the situation is with her treatment but she seems busy with other stuff!

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I woudl leave it for now then.

She has made it clear she is busy.

The occassional friendly text, then wait until she is free to concentrate on other things.

Dont do it over the phone either - be a man and tell her to her face.

That advice will be 10 dollar pwease.

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I agree, i am not sure I should do it the now, she has told me she is busy with other stuff, she told me she wasn't avoiding me, if she is, she is, but if she isn't and really is busy then I am just trying to push my way into her life.

Her mates have always been a big part of her life, I know they mean a lot to her, so I don't expect to jump to the top of the list. I know however I do need to ask, I am tempted to wait till we meet face to face again, should be sometime next week hopefully, ,no doubt that will be down to me texting to arrange something, and then just ask if she will ever see me (us) as more than friends. That will give a clear answer.

While I understand the outcome will most likely be bad, i know it makes sense to know rather than pine like a puppy dog, but after a couple of months of trying to forget her it wasn't happening and to be honest perhaps I shouldn't have even bothered contacting her again in the first place.

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Ok. But don't text to arrange it. Call her to arrange getting together and talk to her face to face.

Then she knows you mean business.

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It's horrible pining for an ex - we have all been there.

It will make moving on or winning her back so much easier though once you know where you stand though.

Hopefully you will have a chance of winning her back - just dont screw it up.

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