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By carolyn, Mon 19 May at 4:50pm 
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Hello all! Hope this doesn't turn out to be an essay as it's not really a massiv problem, hehe just a small dilemma!

There's this bloke who is friends with one of my best friends and he has told her that he fancies me. We were on the same night out together a couple of months ago (the one where I was dressed as a bee if anyone saw the pics!) but never actually met - I didn't even know he was there tbh.

He has since seen other pics of me on my friends facebook profile and told my friend he likes me. So I told her to tell him to request me, we send a couple of messages back and forth on there and end up swapping numbers.

For the last few days he's been texting me everyday, in the morning, I reply and then he replies but with a closed message - asking no questions and very difficult to text back to. (BTW I don't expect someone to want to know EVERYTHING about me and ask me lots of quesions about myself - but a general question in a text would make everything flow so much better!!)

Then I feel like I'm putting myself out trying to think of what to say next...then I finally think of something and he texts back again with another closed message - I don't get it? So it's really feeling like too much effort now, I'm not particularly bothered if nothing comes of it I just wanted to see if we'd get on really.

He's asked me out for a drink now (the only question he's asked all day might I add!) and I'm not sure - should I give him a chance and hope he's more interesting and interested in person? Or just sack it off now as it seems just too much like hard work already.

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By PGE, Mon 19 May at 4:53pm 
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carolyn wrote:



He's asked me out for a drink now (the only question he's asked all day might I add!) and I'm not sure - should I give him a chance and hope he's more interesting and interested in person? Or just sack it off now as it seems just too much like hard work already.



Yes, yes, yes!

Some boys are just crap at texting. My last bloke was, and I never knew what he thought! In person though we got on so well.

Give him a chance!

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By Phoenix, Mon 19 May at 4:54pm 
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carolyn wrote:



He's asked me out for a drink now (the only question he's asked all day might I add!) and I'm not sure - should I give him a chance and hope he's more interesting and interested in person? Or just sack it off now as it seems just too much like hard work already.



You haven't said if you fancied him! Have you ever spoken to him properly in person? I don't think you can judge someone based on how interesting their texts are.

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By deleted4, Mon 19 May at 4:55pm 
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Sack it... sounds like a dibba

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By shutupacut, Mon 19 May at 4:57pm 
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Yeah go for it!

I am not the best texter in the world - much to the frustration of many friends, family and previous women!

Give him a try - if he is hard work just say adios!

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By Richy23, Mon 19 May at 4:57pm 
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I agree, give him a chance!

I know a few people who are similar yet in person they are a right hoot! :-)

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By deleted4, Mon 19 May at 4:58pm 
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Come back and tell us what a dibba he is in real life though eh?

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By PGE, Mon 19 May at 4:59pm 
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Barcode wrote:

Come back and tell us what a dibba he is in real life though eh?



What is a dibba?

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By STE, Mon 19 May at 4:59pm 
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You can't judge the poor fella by text alone!

He should be a real man and call you anyway! Go for a drink, get to know him and then decide after that if it's worth persuing. At least give the guy a chance. It takes a lot of balls to ask a girl out!

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By Richy23, Mon 19 May at 5:00pm 
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STE wrote:


It takes a lot of balls to ask a girl out!


not over text though!

but as I say ghive him a chance I knowa few people who you would expect to be sooo boring if you just went off texts

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