The thing is I think Gubes is men kiss women even if they don't particularly fancy them so bear that in mind if you approach him with the subject. It could well be totally harmless fun.
Oh, please! Not every man conforms to this; I don't ever kiss anyone I am not attracted to! I am sure there are many women out there who kiss men they don't fancy too. :-P
Be fair - you don't fancy women. Or have I missed another thread? ;-)
That said, the way to cut out the analysis is to go right in there and ask him how he feels about the kiss.
No, no, no no, no! That will panic him.
Just suggest meeting up in a situation that could lead to another drunken fumble - if he's washing his hair, walking the dog or visiting a sick aunt - he's not interested. Anything else, and you're in with a chance.
Has the mutural friend actually expressed a serious interest to you? If so, how good a friend is she? Is this guy worth losing that over- seriously?
She has only dropped hints, but it's completely obvious to any observer that she fancies this guy. The three of us hang out together a lot; in fact, we are all going out tomorrow night to get pissed. So that could be interesting! It's like A Midsummer Night's Dream but without the fairies....
Just a thought, does he know you go by the username that you do?
It must be easy to search for stuff about you online, should he be interested in doing so.
EDIT : Search for Gubernatrix on google, the 4th link is MS.
Just suggest meeting up in a situation that could lead to another drunken fumble - if he's washing his hair, walking the dog or visiting a sick aunt - he's not interested. Anything else, and you're in with a chance.
I think you might be right Clauds. I can't come straight out and ask him anyway, there's no way I'd have the guts. I'd rather BASE jump off the Empire State building.
Has the mutural friend actually expressed a serious interest to you? If so, how good a friend is she? Is this guy worth losing that over- seriously?
She has only dropped hints, but it's completely obvious to any observer that she fancies this guy. The three of us hang out together a lot; in fact, we are all going out tomorrow night to get pissed. So that could be interesting! It's like A Midsummer Night's Dream but without the fairies....
OOh.. good luck with that then!
You're gorgeous! he should be so lucky ;-)
Just a thought, does he know you go by the username that you do?
It must be easy to search for stuff about you online, should he be interested in doing so.
He doesn't know, but even if he did, I wouldn't panic about him seeing this thread. There's nothing on here I wouldn't want him to read.
EDIT: Our mutual friend, on the other hand........eek!
Good point though! Someone at work found my strength training blog and I have no idea how!
He doesn't know, but even if he did, I wouldn't panic about him seeing this thread. There's nothing on here I wouldn't want him to read.
Would it not be easier if he did read the thread - save you having to say anything. Even better, he could join mansized and write his response here. Will gets posts, you get answer and we all get gossip.
Hmmm, you guys have got me really paranoid now. He knows I have lots of online pals but he doesn't know any of the website names. I told him about the summer drinkies trip as well.
Hmmm, you guys have got me really paranoid now. He knows I have lots of online pals but he doesn't know any of the website names. I told him about the summer drinkies trip as well.
