Hey all

I am needing a little help with a girl.

Well i met her in a club we got on really well, she's really nice and super intelligent. We went on a date and as far as i know we both had a good time. At the end she said we would have to do something soon and as far as I can tell she really meant it.

Anyway since then I've got a lukewarm response. She was always someone who was texting late and she genuinely had a problem with her phone. Anyway I'm getting a bit annoyed with this, should I just text her or call her and ask her what the situation is. Or does anyone have any advice.


Thanks
Joe

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My advice is always do what you want to. For example, if you want to ask her what is going on then..... ask her.


What have you got to lose?


She may be thinking the same thing if you have not spoken to her recently. Just do it. (hate the way nike have hijacked that last sentence)

Cool

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Women never know what to do.

May be she is waiting for your response, she may be at home thinking why is the idiot not calling. Some like to know how much to value them; hence, play the hard-to-get game.

As mentioned in previous post, "Just do it!". Call/text her, you have nothing to lose.

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Thanks for the good advice so far! Also if you think i should text her, any ideas on the best way to approach it?

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Don't text! Too much room for confusion.

Phone.

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I decided to text her as that was the mode of communications being used. Still no reply. I've realised that I was just liking this girl because of the wrong reason and she wasn't really for me. BUT I am one of these people who need a reason for the "rejection". There is no apparent reason for it, she seemed really keen on going out again. Should i call her to see what I did wrong, I feel there may be a lesson in the whole thing.

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Naw, because before you know it you're phoning 30 times a night, waiting outside her house/work and becoming the subject of a restraining order.

You've made an attempt, now forget about her for now. If she gets in touch again, go out with her and see how it goes.

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What Steven says ^ ^

I know rejection can be hard and I guess we all want to know the reason for it ... but following up unanswered texts with phonecalls is not the way to go about it.

Partly because I'm not sure you'll get a straight answer, but mainly because it makes you look incredibly needy and insecure ... neither of which are particularly attractive features.

You've sent her a message and now the ball's in her court. My personal advice would be to move on. Don't start waiting for a reply. If she gets back to you, then leave it a little bit and then give her a phone call and sort this out directly.

No more text messages.

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Get her a dick in a box...

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Good advice. Don't try and find out 'why' - chances are there just isn't a particular reason. And if there is she isn't likely to tell you because often girls just don't want to hurt people's feelings!!

Move on if you don't hear from her - find someone who is into you! :0)

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