There was this girl that i went out with on a date, anyway we both got on well but neither of us really want anything serious, anyway I could do with more female friends. So how do i get to friends without implying that I want anymore.

I am likely to see her out and about, so should i just leave it to see what happens or should i suggest coffee in a few weeks?

Thanks
Simon

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-college/uni
-work
-g/f friends, or female friends of your friends

These are probably the best ways to make friends, as it is a friendly environment and people get to know each other.

Can I ask, why you want more female friends?

To answer you second question, ensure you say "hello", ask how she is and then just take it from there. There is no reason for you to ignore her; however, do not fall into the trap of thinking you will get back together.

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I've been out with this girl and I just reckon she would be a good friend, I need a female that i can talk with and i think she can do that.

Thanks

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As your relationship ended on good terms, then it is quite feasible that friendship between the two of you can be present. However, this may not happen as she may not feel the same about it as you do.

In addition, do not be aggressive in your wants as the situation can be fragile. Take it slowly and naturally as communication increases, friendship could be the conclusion.

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I think you need to ask her out in a situation where you know there will be a group around you both. Perhaps if you share some mutual friends?

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Coffee sounds like a good place to start, but why wait for a couple of weeks?

What about a day out, rather than a 'date' - any attractions locally that you can visit, or daytime bowling or something like that?

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