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Hi Joe
it's easy to get caught up in analysing people's words and actions when you like them which can sometimes lead to you not always seeing things as they are.
She probably did think you were a nice guy, but she's also made it clear she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. She's indicated this in her statement about not wanting more and also about wanting to meet up then changing her mind.
It would be understandable to see her saying you were a nice guy and not wanting anything 'now' as a signal that she might want you/a relationship in the future.
If she was interested in a relationship she would be giving more signals that she wants to be with you. It is perhaps more likely that she liked you but didn't want anything more.
She may have sent the message and used the words nice because she didn't want to hurt you, didn't want to let you down or didn't want to look bad. If she wanted something more in the future I suspect she'd have been more clear about that.
You could spend time worrying about her thoughts, meanings and actions or you could just chalk it up to experience and find someone else who you like.
The bottom line in this one is she clearly doesn't like you enough, and in the way you want things to be right now.
I'd send her a message back wishing her a good new year. This way you've left the means for communication there for if she chooses to pick them up in the New Year.
I actually sent her a message wishing a new year, but I never mentioned the whole " her not wanting anything" or that, just a general how are you, have a happy new year. That was a couple of days ago, she didn't reply.
I don't understand why she sent me her new number. That's why I can't let it go. I think i need a shrink!
